

1. The “Status Update” Meeting
A recurring meeting where each person states what they’re working on. If the information could fit in a Slack post or shared doc, it should. Kill it and replace it with an async update. See async communication guides.2. The “Loop Everyone In” Meeting
Called because someone worried about missing a stakeholder. Attended by 12 people, most of whom don’t need to be there. Kill it — send the summary to the 12 and hold a 3-person decision meeting instead.3. The “We Should Talk” Meeting
Someone requested it with no clear agenda. Vague topic. Vague outcome. Kill it — or force clarity: “What decision are we making, and by when?” If no answer, no meeting.4. The “Recurring for the Sake of Recurring” Meeting
It’s on the calendar because it’s been on the calendar. Nobody remembers who started it. Attendance drifts. Content thins. Kill it — the alarm won’t go off. See calendar management for how to audit these.5. The “Prep for the Meeting” Meeting
A meeting to prepare for a different meeting. Almost always a sign that the actual meeting has poor structure. Fix the real meeting with a strong meeting agenda template and kill the prep meeting.6. The “Recap the Meeting” Meeting
A meeting to summarize what happened in a previous meeting for people who weren’t there. Kill it — send a 3-line written summary instead.7. The “Brainstorm” Meeting (For Solvable Problems)
Real brainstorming has value. But most “brainstorms” are meetings that an owner could have run as a decision. Kill these and empower an owner to write a proposal, then decide with a 15-minute review.8. The “All Hands” That Reads a Memo
A leader reads a prepared statement to 100 people. Kill the reading — send the memo. Save the live meeting for actual Q&A.9. The “Discovery Call” That’s Actually a Pitch
Someone books it as a “quick discovery chat” but plans to pitch you a service. Kill it politely — “I’m not in a buying window; happy to review a written summary.”10. The “Politely Nod” Meeting
The meeting where you’re invited so nobody feels excluded, but you contribute nothing. Kill your attendance — ask for the notes instead. Nobody will notice.How to Kill Them Without Drama
- Send a graceful exit note. “Reviewing my calendar for focus — stepping out of this recurring meeting. Please loop me in for specific topics.”
- Propose an async replacement. “Would a weekly written update work in place of the sync?”
- Offer to help redesign it. Sometimes you can save the meeting with better structure.
- Track what happens. Nine times out of ten, nothing does. That’s the point.
The Cost of Not Killing Them
Ten unnecessary meetings per week, every 30 minutes, on a team of 8 people, cost 40 person-hours weekly — over 2,000 hours per year. That’s more than one full-time employee’s output, gone. Multiply by the number of teams in your organization and the numbers become uncomfortable fast.The Better Alternatives
- Async Slack updates replace status meetings.
- Loom videos replace context-setting meetings.
- Written proposals + 15-minute decision meetings replace brainstorms.
- Team wikis replace “walk me through the project” meetings.










Deanna Ritchie
Editor-in-Chief at Calendar. Former Editor-in-Chief, ReadWrite, Former Editor-in-Chief and writer at Startup Grind. Freelance editor at Entrepreneur.com. Deanna loves to help build startups, and guide them to discover their business value and the "how to" of their online content and social media marketing.